Thursday, October 23, 2008

PLATONIC RELATIONSHIP~

I was about to turn off my study light and off to bed when a picture on my table caught my attention. A picture of me with minnie, taken last year somewhere in June. Every year, the period from June-August will be the best period in the year. I'm not going to tell more about it now, what im going to write is about the platonic relationship, opposite sex can be super best friend without involved feeling.. Is it true??Do i believe in that??
Do guy and girl can be best friend without involved feeling and sincerely just be best friend?

When you get close to your best friend which is the opposite sex of yours, you tend to care bout her..Then slowly, noticed or unnoticed a strange feeling towards her will slowly grow..A weird feeling to have her more than just a close friend,perasaan ingin memiliki dan mencintai :p...
Then, you started to act awkwardly and thus break the rule of friendship,never fall for your bestfriend..
From an article that I read before, this kind of relationship can only be happened in 3 condition..

First, either that guy is gay or that girl is lesbian, it works eitherway..hehehe...no offence to anyone.Next is that when that guy think that woman whom he bestfriended is not attractive or not hot enough, in short that girl is damn ugly and hell fat and it also goes the reverse way for a girl whom bestfriended a guy..again,no offence..The last one is that when that guy feel inferior towards that girl whom he bestfriended because that girl is too high standard and it also work the reverse way for a girl opinions..I still don't understand about the this one. How come when a guy feel inferior then he can become close friend with that girl without involve the loving doving feeling??

But honestly for me,I believed that such relationship do exist and can be happened..But in order to make that happend,both party have to sacrifise and suffer.Yes,you will fall for your bestfriend,surely that thing going to happend when you get too intimate with your opposite sex. But,DO NOT CROSS THE FRIENDSHIP LINE..Keep that feeling to yourself,tough to do right??
But again,If you are sincere and honest to be friend with that person,then you must know your border and limit..Try your very best not to fall for her..
Never cross the friendship line and maintain the beauty of being bestfriend to each other..There are things that you can only share with your bestfriend and not your love one..wink2..hehehe...

But that just my opinion, I don’t know about yours. I have experienced this,and i know how does it feel.But someone told me about this,'there is nothing greater than a great romance to destroy the beauty of friendship' :) .. I think I'm going to watch 'A lot like love' after this or play a mocca song, 'on the night like this' and let it play untill i fall asleep :) ..Miss u minnie~
Till then..
-theskyisnevertoohightoaim-

2 comments:

lollypopspeaks said...

yeah.. absolutely can! with one rule of thumb! NEVER crossed that border!
never even think about it!

skycraker said...

yeah agree with that..
but like i said,if u get too intimate then u might fall for that person..
but again,DONT CROSS THE LINE~